Are you trapped?

ball and chainDo you feel as though you can’t change your life or achieve happiness because …

Is your trap:

  • Your career?
  • A marriage/relationship?
  • Money?

Are you really honestly trapped or have you trapped yourself because it’s more comfortable than going through the fear of escape?

Dare I say “You aren’t really trapped” ?

It’s actually your choice.

Now don’t all jump to hang me from the nearest lamppost!

I’m giving you some good news.

You are not trapped. You just haven’t chosen to escape yet.

What I am doing right now is telling you that you can make that choice.

You are never really trapped.

For example, many people I have worked with are convinced that they are trapped by a career that pays generously and allows then to have the life they want to lead, yet they aren’t happy!  Many others believe that they are trapped in an unhappy marriage because of the cost of divorce or because they believe that they don’t have the ability to become financially independent.

Don’t get me wrong. You know the saying “money can’t buy happiness!” try telling that to someone who can’t afford to put food on the table or get the medical care they need. However, I digress.

If you have money and still aren’t happy then “No” obviously money has not bought you happiness. Yet many people continue in a career they are not happy with, or a marriage that makes them miserable because they can’t afford to do otherwise. That’s not trapped, that’s a choice.

I’m not saying it’s easy to walk away from the golden handcuffs of a lucrative career, or a financially secure marriage especially if you don’t have a job or your own career. What I am saying is that it is possible.

But before you can choose to walk away from either you need to be able to make an informed decision.

They best way to do that is to go “Cold Turkey” …. in your head.

Sounds bizarre?

Trust me, I’m good at what I do.

Imagine you lost your income from your job, your marriage. How would you survive?

No idea?  Perhaps you are not yet motivated to thoroughly research it.

Let’s get you motivated.

Think about every single way your life would improve if you weren’t trapped and could do all of the things you really wanted to do with your life that would really make you feel happy and content. Let your imagination go wild, you’re not hurting anyone!

Heath warning!  For those of you who are thinking “But I don’t deserve it.” Knock that one right on it’s head this minute. Every single human being has the right to be happy. You are no different to the rest of us. Thinking otherwise is your choice. Take responsibility for that choice and change it; if you can’t get someone professionally qualified to help you.

Now you can envisage how your life can be, that’s your motivation for researching every thing you can about becoming financially free. (Having the minimum amount of money to cater for the basics: Food, warmth, shelter). This is the minimum you need to escape from your trap.

Once you are free, you will then have the freedom to develop yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

To be happy.

Just think about it.

I’m not suggesting you do anything – yet!


I have been helping people like you to make that choice for over a decade. Feel free to contact me to discuss making yours.